Originally Posted By: DifferentKindofGirl
AsphaltAnnie,
I believe I know which poster you're talking about, and while that was a big factor for her, I remember there being other reasons for her as well.

It's great that you found a man to support your childfree life, and I'm sure many of the women posting here also which they had been so lucky. Had you fallen for a man who wanted children, who's to say what choice you would have made. We don't have the right to judge others, as we have not truly been in their shoes.



I was engaged to a wonderful man, who was successful, hot, wealthy, and every woman's dream. He would no compromise on the kids situation, I broke off our marriage 2 weeks before the date.It was the hardest thing I have ever had to do. Glad I did it, he did eventually marry and have kids. He married a friend of mine, she is home alone all the time with kids while his personal assitant and him are on business.
I have been in her shoes, true love is about compromise and never feeling the other persons live is based on something other than you.