It may be that you just don't like babies. I decided not to have children because while I love kids, I have no feelings for babies at all (they are just work) and I didn't feel that was a good environment to bring a child into.
However, if the grandmother herself feels that the baby is just work, she might be more willing than you think to support you in adoption.
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