I've just been reading some of these posts and I'm appaled at women, whom have given birth and do not love their children. You should be utterly disgusted in yourselves. It is a gift to have a baby and these children DO NOT ASK TO BE BORN! From the moment of conception, you are an adult, so deal with! You should make every effort to make that child's life precious, not make it a living hell!! "Both accidents", yes children LOVE to hear that of themselves, it does so much for their self worth.