But they are OK with letting their kids know they are unloved, unwanted, and a burden in their lives? Ultimately it is always a choice to bear a child. Just because some believe it's against their ethics, doesn't mean they don't have a choice, they do, but they are allowing their ethics to make that choice. They still always have a choice in this country. The women in this thread who don't think their kids will know how they feel are completely deluding themselves. Kids always know. It is a truly wicked thing to bring a child into the world by default only to have it grow up knowing it is unloved, unwanted and unwelcome.

Last edited by SallyR; 04/20/09 08:02 PM.