It's nice to know I'm not the only one... it's not like I don't love my baby boy (he is the cutest little thing), but I hate what has become of my life. Nobody does tell you about all the [censored] you have to deal with. I KNEW I didn't want kids, and I should've known that, but I listened to my mom and saw all my friends and wanted to keep my relationship so I sacrificed everything in order to do so. I wish I had listened to my heart... my only advice to anyone if they're undecided on having children, is to listen to YOUR OWN HEART! DO NOT listen to other people or how they feel or what they think. Do what's right for you.