No one here was forced to become a mother you all had the option of not becoming one at all. You choose to bear children for whatever reason and this is now your life.
If you don't want your children have the courage to put them up for adoption. Kids aren't dumb and they *will* grow up knowing exactly how you really feel about them, I can imagine few things crueler than kids growing up knowing they are unloved and unwanted!
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