Susannah: if you have no understanding for women who post here, maybe you should run away to the happy moms threads.

DifferentKindofGirl: you are absolutely right. If you don't want a child but had one you have to do your best to hide it. And you are right: babies and children are not that perceptive. A smile is a smile no matter what. I felt very little for my son the first months but did everything as if (except breast-feeding, which I find disgusting) My child is now 2 and he is the happiest kid in the world. If I had shown what I felt to him I do not want to know how he would be now.

Castionima: great post, and it proves DifferentKindofGirl and myself right about the "faking".

Last edited by Solalux; 04/24/09 08:07 AM.