AsphaltAnnie, I believe I know which poster you're talking about, and while that was a big factor for her, I remember there being other reasons for her as well. It's great that you found a man to support your childfree life, and I'm sure many of the women posting here also which they had been so lucky. Had you fallen for a man who wanted children, who's to say what choice you would have made. We don't have the right to judge others, as we have not truly been in their shoes.