Just signed up as I felt I ought to add my voice. I have a beautiful 6 week old son but I wish I'd never had him. My life was great before - I was married but we were free, we travelled, had fun and had busy, exciting lives. My life has ground to a halt and I my husband and I both think that we've made a terrible mistake. All you ever hear is that having kids is the most amazing and wonderful thing that will ever happen to you but we both feel miserable.