Jenny, I think you feel just like everyone else here. What makes the experiences of interacting different for each of us is what emotional response the individual holds on to. What you choose to let pass through you and what you hold and carry around. That can be a subtle thing, or a stuck response, or a habit. I also think it can be a choice. Like the negetive "pain" (we all know one) who is always whining. That is not their destiny. They can change their "Perspective." But, it takes mental retraining and a little work. Worth it!
We are humans with the ability to feel joy, pain, and boredom. Attitude equals altitude. Great women who rise from adversity, suck it up and make it work for them. A child who has a mom who can do that, it getting a great gift from her.
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