Did you not comperhend? Children are VERY PERCEPTIVE! Let you in on a little secret, babysitting and having an actual child of your own, to raise and nurture into a valuable memder of society is, so far removed from each other, as to be farcsicle. Another little secret, anyone can find a site of a 'study', for such and such, to help put their point across! Some little words to the wise; Believe nothing of what you read and only half of what you see! Maybe a far better motto, to heed?