Debbie, I just changed some wording to my post a little bit ago not knowing that you responded about the same time. I hope that I caused no confusion?? I think all is well.

Once in a while after I think about my wording I realize that I should have rephrased a few things.

It seems like we both have experienced many of the same emotions and hurts when it comes to growing Debbie and because no manual fell out with each of us when we were born we had to learn to navigate our way through this life by trial and error. When we buy a toaster or a blender at least we get a manual with them!!! As for myself maybe the manual was too far out of print??? LOL Thanks Debbie