No worries... I am interested in the answer to that last question too. I know that in the Gnostic Tradition they consider Sophia (Wisdom) as the Holy Mother. Wisdom is generally considered the area of the Holy Spirit so in that respect Sophia/the Holy Spirit is female.
I am curious how the LDS Holy Mother fits in.
But beyone the topic of Holy Mother as Goddess, Rae is correct in recommending that you have any other questions answered in private message.
Thanks!