In both a secular and nonsecular context, there is a Universe of difference between nurturing and enabling. Why do you think it is that so many self-described nurturers are in reality the most insidious of enablers?

Only if no one replies was this a rhetorical question.

As a related question, what do you think is/should be the cause/reason for a person attaining any level/degree of self-esteem?

Another related question, what descriptive word do you think
is contemporaneously the one that is most misused/misapplied?
My nomination is awesome.