just to update here. the (m) took Uncle Gary to the hospice home last fri morn. a minister called me at 4pm. I was alone w/ Uncle Gary until I called my brother. We stayed with him until he went to be with God at 11 pm. If the minister hadnt of called, Uncle Gary would have died alone. His own sister just left him there!! Just goes to show her abuse is ALL on her!! it has nothing to do with anyone but HER!!! she makes me sick!
God is good though because I was with him and he knew. He had the pillow from my house and the hat I gave him. Thats what he chose to take. He couldnt talk but we both knew. We loved each other very very much! Now grieving alone is hard. At least Im not confused anymore.

Last edited by freemenow; 01/27/10 11:17 AM.