I am so grateful to have found this site and your post. Firstly, my sincere condolences on your loss. I just lost my baby at 17 weeks yesterday. I will have a d&c today at 5pm and will find out the gender and then we will have a burial on Sunday. This is my 3rd miscarriage this year. I was diagnosed with antiphospholipid antibody syndrome prior to this pregnancy and was put on heparin and baby aspirin which was supposed to significantly improve my chances of carrying to term. In my case, it did not work. I am grateful in that I have 3 beautiful children, however, that does not make this loss any easier. The doctor informed me that I will not be able to have any more children because it is too risky to me and to any future fetus due to my new history.
I hope you can find comfort in the support of this site and your friends and family.
Blessings,
Julie