Wow thank you both and sorry it took so long to reply to this. I agree with both and my Michelle that had to have been a very trying day for you having to go through that.
It's a real tragedy to lose any life and like a very wise man and senior Okinawan martial artist in my style told me that " There are no small lives " and I agree.
Seems very simple in wording but it came off very strong to me and sometimes the simplest of things do that.
Well thank you so much and God Bless you all!