I didn't say anything about a crystal ball. I didn't say he jumped from eight to twenty eight. There is a twenty year span in there. He was probably the same way ten years ago, three years ago, etc... who knows?
And I am not judging, you are all judging saying that he is taking his father for granted or not doing stuff on his own. Saying that love is being mistaken for weakness. Thats judging.
I only said that fixing the car saved her and the father money because she said that they would have to pay for him to go to college.
You mean to tell me that if a family member offered to fix your car, you would say no because you would rather spend hundreds of dollars to get it fixed on your own?
You can call it what you want, but it just shows me that his father loves him whether he is enabling or not, if he didn't love him, he wouldn't be doing these things for him.
