It sounds to me like your husband loves his son and is being supportive of him. Is he really babying him by going to his band gigs to support him and cheer him on?
Is he coddling him when he makes sure that his taxes are done right or that his resume was right so he could get or keep his job?
He spends time with him to play pool for a couple of hours a week.
Sounds to me like he loves his son and wants to see him succeed. Is that really so bad?
