Good for you Deanna
WE as women have to DECIDE what we want out of our relationships and make it happen. Gone are those days of one partner "bossing" around the other (yes, I am also referring to us women = naggers). As the divorce rates increase, folks are beginning to realize that you have to work at any relationship and take care of yourself.
We get comfortable and forget to dress nicely and act nicely - and have date nights = just you and him