Years ago, I dated someone who had a child. My first thought was, "good, he wont expect me to have one because he's already a dad." He was never married to the child's mother so he only paid child support and no alimony. I honestly believed that since he only saw this child once per week it wouldn't make a difference...until one night we were in bed during an intimate moment and I hear ,"Daddy, I want to sleep with you." My, at the time, boyfriend went to his son... That was the beginning of the end for me. People can think what they may, but I like to come first in my man's life as he comes first in mine!
Last edited by misstalia; 04/15/09 04:12 PM.