If they won't let you Essure, get your tubes tied. Don't worry so much over the surgery. The anesthesiologist should come into pre-surgery to meet with you. You can have your man there with you. Your original post made me feel as though your fiance worried about you being abused. Maybe I read into it wrong but if not, you are not alone in the surgery room with the Anes. You've got the Anes., the Surg., nurses, techs and other helpers. You are in the best place to be saved if a medical emergency happens, surrounded by highly trained professionals and already on a breathing machine. And I am talking about day surgery centers too. You'll be fine if you go this way.
Last edited by silverscout; 04/25/08 05:41 PM.