Perhaps the question here is, "What do you need to do to improve the way your husband affects you?"
I understand what it's like to feel your husband creates a lot of stress in your life. In fact, I felt the same way until I realized that I am the one who is in control of how I let others affect me, including my husband.
I learned to put up boundaries and figure out what makes me happy so that I could offset the drama my guy added. Now, I am happy and not feeling that my happiness depends on my husband.
I wrote an article about this called, What if He Doesn't Change?
. I hope it inspires you!