Christmas has now passed without much going wrong. He only told me, once that he did not want the kids to end up my size (size 18) and the next time that I had ate all the chocolates (not true) yes I did eat some but not then all.
This really disturbs me, and reminds me of my father. I am afraid he won't change, and he will just make you feel worse by criticising your size and watching everything you put in your mouth. You may or may not eat more in secret. I did, so I am hoping you will stay strong, and not get bigger. My thought is: as you start to look better and better, he'll get scared and just find something else to put you down. Don't let that happen.
