Hi Diana
I think that men tend to so a lot of very hurtful things when they do not like the ways things are going. I am not sure that he actually wants to work things out but sometimes once certain thing have been said there is no going back.
I do not know how things work where you are as not sure what country with regard to your rights etc. I would try to get advice from a lawyer so you know the best steps to take. i would contact the lawyers you bough the house through and get ledger printout etc showing where the money came from for the deposit ie your condo sale.
At the end of the day you have to do what is best for you and your kids but if you could go somewhere while matters are being sorted that would probably be best as you do not want your kids to see the bickering etc.
I have had a difficult time as well but things have got better recently as we did sit down and discuss things and some of it seems to have worked.
Can you not arrange for your car etc to come off direct from your bank account. It might be an idea if you are looking for another job to try and get one that would enable you to support yourself and your kids on your own.
Take care of yourself.
