Hi,
I agree with you. Since I don't have children people automatically conclude that I never wanted children. They don't realize the struggle that I have had to overcome within myself to get to the place I am now. It is not a black and white answer.
I believe that those individuals who don't have children have truly thought about it while most people who have children just basically got pregnant by accident and that was that.
Have a great day.
Giselle