I think the most frustration I heard after my miscarriage a week ago when I was 10 weeks and had gotten back from a cruise was from my OBGYN financial dept. The girl was telling me that I did not suffer a financial loss....and was arguing with me about it. And when I asked her if she had any children she said no and that she didn't have to disclose her medical history to me.

The other one was talking to my health insurance CS and them trying to explain to me that my ER visit was not considered an accident...that this miscarriage was somehow meant to be.