You might be a people pleaser...if you are constantly trying to make everyone else comfortable. Every character has it's good points and its shadow values. As a people pleaser, you may want to ask yourself, why do I want to make everyone happy? Is it about their comfort or is it that I want others to like what I am doing (it's easy to start with one reason & accidentally slide into the other)? What characteristics do you want to embody, regardless of what others think?