I think grief is just one of those things that doesn't deserve judgement.
Each processor is as individual as the individual themselves.
If you didn't feel it, that's a part of the human experience that makes it just that.
For a moment...I can't believe I'm saying this, but maybe I can't even remember, it was during the abuse thing. I lost so much and no family to speak of.
I wondered what it would be like to be a little girl again and actually call my parents "mommy" and "daddy."
I burst into a flood of tears I hadn't seen in a long time to be strong. But I think no matter what age, as long as it's a personal process, once to go through it, you're much more able to reach the person it is that you miss