It's funny you just posted this because I was watching a video on what's currently going on with Marie Osmond...
Perfect makeup, perfect hair, fashions up the gazzo, hour-glass figure, 8 kids, and makin' money with nutrisystems !!
All projecting what you should be doing to be like me... but, you can't be me because your income doesn't match-up.
I ran across an article from a gal who honestly states reasons for not having children:
My parents waited until their 30's when they knew what they wanted - I've been with a lot of women who said, "I wish I waited".
The article above pretty much sums up my views.
I hope you can get something out of it.
I'm not distracting from your beautifully written and heartfelt article, I'm just pointing to a gal who successfully overcame the 'superwoman' edict much like yourself.