Sometimes after a breakup be it a divorce, relationship (long or short-term), being ready to find love really is the key to finding lasting love.
Far too often people jump right back in, myself included way back when and got out as soon as humanly possible. They're honest mistakes anyone can make, due to finances, low self-esteem, or simply just missing having someone to be with.
I've found reaching out, SAFELY
online to be a helpful stepping stone. By that I mean, no personal information, just messaging, light-hearted topics.
With the economy the way it is, people will do and say just about anything if they feel there's a good catch off in the waiting...