[quote=Sindri]My finace has told me over and over that even if I wanted to (which I don't) he would hate me getting waxed. He loves my hair and tells me again and again how attractive he finds it.
IMO if you do it for yourself then fine, it's your choice. Whatever your hair looks like head to toe is your decision but if you are doing it for others then don't do it.
I have shaved once and I hated it but I did it because I thought it should be done, that it would be sexier (Jennifer Anniston in The Breakup etc.). I still have thoughts like that, you see the images on TV and the media and no hair is anywhere to be seen on these girls bodies so I get pressured into thinking that mine should be the same. But then that's why i'm here, to understand that there is nothing wrong with my body. [/quote]
Well said Sindri. My thoughts are in perfect harmony with yours. If you feel like you would enjoy some shorter hair here and there then by all means, just don't feel like you are in the position where you have to go for a certain look. It is my own opinion that aesthetically some hair down there is very appealing, but like everything else, a little grooming and touch-up can really give a gal some confidence with a new partner. Just do what you feel comfortable with.