Claybird ~ congrats on the upcoming vacation. Enjoy the money that you have earned. Leaving it for family to fight over is unacceptable. And chances are they will. You might say "oh, my family would never do that"... well let me tell you something > chances are they will.
My dh and I have decided we want our bank account to be down to the single digets when we die. My folks passed away leaving everything to my brother (I mean ex-brother)

and now we are a divided family.
Soooo spend it and ENJOY every minute, which we absolutely intend to do!!!!!
