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Re: im 17 and i had a miscarriage [Re: dmichelle] #476358 12/17/08 06:34 PM
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I took 2 tests and both said possitive. And then a few days later I got this huge pain in my side, and when I went to the bathroom, there was blood and gooey, chunky clumps. [sorry for the vulgarity]. It stopped a few hours later, and then started up in the same way. It was off and on for about 3 days, and then finally stopped completely.

My boyfriends mom got me a new pregnancy test, and it came up negative. So she took me to the planned parenthood near them, and they confirmed that I had a miscarriage.

Also, no, I don't have a problem with drinking, Kevin. I only drink about once a month, if that.

Re: im 17 and i had a miscarriage [Re: Lolipop] #476363 12/17/08 06:44 PM
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It sounds like you have a good relationship with your boyfriend's mom. That's great. I bet she has given you both good advice about waiting and that it was a blessing.

Are you feeling better now?

I have had both hysterical pregnancy and miscarriage so I'm well acquainted with the goo. LOL

Re: im 17 and i had a miscarriage [Re: dmichelle] #476370 12/17/08 07:06 PM
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I'm still upset about it. For the first few days, everytime I sat on the toilet I would start shaking because what I saw really traumatized me.

And yes, me and my boyfriend go to her for everything. We love her.

Re: im 17 and i had a miscarriage [Re: Lolipop] #476378 12/17/08 07:17 PM
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Are you reading the other posts by woman who have had similiar experiences? That might help.

I know it hurts both physically and emotionally. The more you think about it, the longer it's going to take for the memory to fade. Memories are designed to fade if you let them.

Try thinking about how to make this holiday a special one because you have a guardian angel you didn't know about.

Please cheer up!

Re: im 17 and i had a miscarriage [Re: dmichelle] #476385 12/17/08 08:11 PM
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I was afraid to post here, because I knew that since I'm so young I'd get judged for it.
I mentioned I drank , and people ask me if I have a problem.
I'm no different than any other teenager. I'm sure every parent out there has a child that doesnt tell them everything. So I drink once in awhile, I'm no different than any other 17 year old these days.

I'm only 17. I didn't WANT a baby. But that doesnt' make it any less traumatizing ):

I was afraid I'd get judged, and at first I did, but then people started being nicer and more understanding and now I'm kind of glad i posted here.

Re: im 17 and i had a miscarriage [Re: Lolipop] #477039 12/20/08 04:59 AM
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I'm so sorry hon! I was 17 when I had my son and I had all those same fears of being judged and stuff... but I'm so sorry for you loss, if you ever want to talk, i'll give you my email, I know of a few other forum's that would probably great for you.

And do NOT let older people (parents or not) get you down for having gotten pregnant or anything like that! Just kindly tell them that over half of ALL children conceived are UNPLANNED!

Hugs!


Anita full time student, name-nerd, and single teen mommy to Donovon Cole Michael
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