well i always wanted to be married. So the second thing you said. And now that I am married I know why - i love being married! I love being a team with my best friend. being single was not so good for me.
Anyway, at our wedding i had decided who to toss the bouquet to way ahead of time. You have to pick that person carefully, someone who would LIKE to get it, be THRILLED to get it, and would not be embarrassed. So that is what I did and she was happy. I thought everyone did this?
We also had DH remove my garter (with his teeth, heehee) and he tossed it to the single men. So the one who caught it got to award the girl who caught the bouquet by placing it on HER leg. It was great fun and we all enjoyed that game.
