I feel your pain, I had my miscarriage at the being of nov. I was out of the country for six months when i got pregnant. I was only home a week and i started bleeding on that sunday. I freak out, my mom who is a nurse said that sometime pregnant women bleed and everything is fine. She help me call the doctor and they told me to stay in bed and put my feet up. Next day i went into the office. They did an ultrasound and i was told i had miscarried. I was in shock and it didnt help when they put me in an exam room next to another room where a woman was listening to her baby's heart beat. After my miscarriage, my relatives would say its ok, it happens sometimes, its was god's will. and one i got alot was you should be gald u lost it now instead of later like ur cousin. My cousin carried her baby to term and he died. its hard, and even when other meant well, they dont stop to think about what they are saying. Especially if they never experince the lost.