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How would you rate your husband on a scale of 1 (really icky) to 10 (amazing) and why do you rate him that why? I think that can tell us what makes a great husband.
I'd have to say overall I rate mine a 7 because while sometimes he's amazing (very helpful, supporting and loving), a lot of times he's not so great (just plain cranky, lazy and kind of in the way). Very inconsistent which drives me crazy. What about yours?
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I'd rate him a 10. We went through a very bad patch a few years ago where we both were in the icky stage.It was horrible and I don't know how we lasted but somehow we did.
When we're good together and supportive of each other's dreams, we're a fantastic couple.
"Allow your dreams to become your plans."
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How would you rate your husband on a scale of 1 (really icky) to 10 (amazing) and why do you rate him that why? I think that can tell us what makes a great husband.
Communicator 9 Memory for family things 4 Memory for work things 8 Indoor Household helper 5 Outdoor household helper 6 Home improvement 9 Father / Father figure 7 Romantic 3 Sexually active / drive 9
As you can see there are so many categories and he bounces around them, as an overall I rate him a 7. He's a good hardworking man with a heart of gold that can be messy and lazy at times but will bust his butt to take care of us and the house when needed.
Most importantly - we talk - we talk about everything under the sun so that we have a really good idea of where the other one stands/feels and it helps to alleviate stress and potential conflict.
Pat - Mommyword
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I would rate my husband a 10. He goes the extra mile to please me. We work as a team and make decisions together. He isn't overly romantic but he does a good job. I know that he loves me unconditionally for who I am.
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I give my hubby Top marks. He is kind, generous and loves ME which is a challenge, LOL! Thankyou darling
Nicola Jane Soen
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Hubby has a lot of drive sometimes and other times, he is blah. I can't blame him, because I am, too, at times. Still, I wouldn't have married him if I didn't think he was a perfect 10. We have had rough times in our relationship, but nothing we couldn't talk out and nothing too dramatic. In seven years we've only had one huge fight that could have degenerated into a seperation if we both didn't communicate well after arguments.
Last year, though, something happened to me and he was beside me the entire time. I never knew his depth of emotion until then. He really is an amazing man.
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I would rate my husband a perfect 10! He is the most romantic man I know. He's much more romantic than I am. He's a wonderful father and excellent husband. And most importantly he loves my dimpled a$$!!!
My BlogDeal with yourself as an individual worthy of respect and make everyone else deal with you the same way. ~Nikki Giovanni~
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Anyone who can put up with me is a perfect 10. But I'll say a 9 because I think perfection would be kind of boring. When it's really counted he has been there for me. I can't imagine being with anyone else. How sappy is that? We'll be together a total of 20 years this october. Now I feel old. :0
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Technically I don't have a husband, but my S.O. and I have lived together for 7 years. We are both divorced. I have two kids and he has two, and they've all four lived with us full time. I consider him my husband and who knows, maybe someday we'll get married.
I give him really good marks, I'd say an 9. Everyone has flaws, so I'd probably say he'd give me an 9. He's funny and tries to be considerate. He's a lot of fun to be with. He loves animals and that's something we have in common. He loves to cook, helps a lot around the house and is a good dad.
You did what you knew how to do, and when you knew better, you did better. - Maya Angelou
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11 out of ten for my hubby we have never went to bed angry with each other ever i guess the 13 year gap between us does help
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