Hubby has a lot of drive sometimes and other times, he is blah. I can't blame him, because I am, too, at times. Still, I wouldn't have married him if I didn't think he was a perfect 10. We have had rough times in our relationship, but nothing we couldn't talk out and nothing too dramatic. In seven years we've only had one huge fight that could have degenerated into a seperation if we both didn't communicate well after arguments.
Last year, though, something happened to me and he was beside me the entire time. I never knew his depth of emotion until then. He really is an amazing man.