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My friend and I had vaginal sex only without a condom. I came in her for a long time but she never reached and orgasm or came. I am pretty sure she is d/d free but was wondering if she had something how susceptible I might be.
Any insight???
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What do you mean how susceptible you might be?
As for sexual activity, there is always a risk of contracting something. There is NO safe sex, only safer sex. The only way to have safer sex is to use protection. I don't advocate unprotected sexual activity because of the risks associated.
If you believe she is d/d free, then you are probably "safe" but there is never any guarantee. The only way to be sure is to ask her if she is d/d free and/or to get tested yourself, and then tested again six months later. Remember, diseases can remain hidden for quite some time. Just because a person may look d/d free does not mean they are. Sexually Transmitted diseases such as herpes can be transmitted even if the person does not have a current breakout.
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Just because a woman doesn't have an orgasm doesn't mean you can't catch a disease. The fluid secreted in the [censored] with or without orgasm is what carries most diseases. If she tears anywhere down there, then you have blood mixed in where HIV is carried. Not to mention you all are taking a risk of getting pregnant unless she is on some type of birth control. How long have you known her? Do you know who she has been with before you? I mean no offense but just taking her word for it and not using a condom until you see some test results from her is just plain ignorant. So you are 100% suseptible to catching something without using a condom.
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What do you mean how susceptible you might be?
As for sexual activity, there is always a risk of contracting something. There is NO safe sex, only safer sex. The only way to have safer sex is to use protection. I don't advocate unprotected sexual activity because of the risks associated.
If you believe she is d/d free, then you are probably "safe" but there is never any guarantee. The only way to be sure is to ask her if she is d/d free and/or to get tested yourself, and then tested again six months later. Remember, diseases can remain hidden for quite some time. Just because a person may look d/d free does not mean they are. Sexually Transmitted diseases such as herpes can be transmitted even if the person does not have a current breakout. You are right Jase.
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Orgasm has no relation with diseases.
You can get Herpes, HIV, Syphilis, Chlamydia and Warts without protection.
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asking him or her isn't a way of protecting yourself he or she may not know they have any std,s my daughter contacted the aids virus threw unprotected sex, and she had a baby born with hiv, safe sex should alway be used,all it takes is one time ,even the first time
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asking him or her isn't a way of protecting yourself he or she may not know they have any std,s my daughter contacted the aids virus threw unprotected sex, and she had a baby born with hiv, safe sex should alway be used,all it takes is one time ,even the first time Right.
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you can get a lot of diseases if you don't have a condom ... but that's only a taught 
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