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Remember that breastfeeding probably freaks you out because it's not the norm in your family or circle of friends. It's totally natural since our bodies are made to do it.

About size, I'm a 40F and have had no problems breastfeeding and haven't gotten any bigger. Well-endowed women don't really get bigger. Small-breasted women are the ones that typically see an increase in size.

www.promom.org has 101 reasons to breastfed that many of you probably don't know about. If any of you ever do decide to have a baby, I hope you'll check it out.

Hmm..I'm a 40F and breastfeed in public without showing any of my breast. Hmm..not sure who these women you're seeing are or why they're nursing like that..maybe they were wearing tank tops?

About making a baby drink from a bottle, not all babies can do this and many moms don't want to take the chance. You see, the baby can experience nipple confusion which means that they sometimes won't go back to the breast.

Also, some women don't get much milk when they pump which makes pumping impossible. I'm one of them. I have lots of milk but could barely get an ounce with a pump.

Finally, we live in a society in which people go to Hooters and lingerie commercials are shown during the day (think Victoria's Secret) but women like me aren't supposed to breastfeed in public? Hmm..Definitely a double standard there. So someone would be happy to see me on a beach with a barely there bikini top but not discreetly nursing my baby.

We live in a sexually charged society and it's sad because views like these lead some moms to never even try nursing.

I hear this a lot. I was raised on formula and I'm not just fine. I have PCOS and used to have high cholesterol.

It's important to note that breastfeeding affects your child's health during their ADULT years as well as during infancy. This is a fact that many women (and men) don't seem to understand. I know I didn't get it until after I'd been a mom for a few years and really did my reading. So when you think you're "fine" it doesn't mean that you wouldn't have benefited from being breastfed. People who aren't breastfed have a higher risk of becoming diabetic, experiencing heart problems, dealing with obesity, and more. As for the benefits for infant and mom (less chance of breast cancer and uterine cancer) breastfeeding your daughter reduces HER risk of breast cancer. Children who are breastfed are less likely to get leukemia as a child.

Here are some benefits for mom and baby. I'll try to post more benefits for adults who were breastfed when I have time.

Lower Your Baby's Risk of Leukemia (from Dr. Green's site)

Discovering that your child has cancer is one of a parent�s worst nightmares. A study in the October 1999 issue of the Journal of the National Cancer Institute looked at risks of leukemia, the most common childhood cancer. Babies who are breastfed even one month lower their risk of leukemia by 20%. We've known that breastfeeding powerfully prevents infections, allergies, and asthma. This study suggests that breast milk's immune properties are even more powerful than we thought. Babies who were breastfed for 6 months enjoyed an even lower risk of leukemia (30% less). Isn't it wonderful that mothers have such a special gift to be able to give to their babies?

Infant Benefits
1. Protects Against Infection
a. Diarrhea
Children less than 12 months of age had a lower incidence of acute diarrheal disease during the months they were being breastfed than children that were fed with formula during the same period.
Source: Lerman,Y. et al. "Epidemiology of acute diarrheal diseases in children in a high standard of living settlement in Israel". Pediatr Infect Dis J 1994; 13(2);116-22.

b. Haemophilus Influenza
In a population based case control study of risk factors for primary invasion of haemophilus influenza, type B disease, breastfeeding was protective of infants less than 6 months of age.
Source: Cochi, S.L. "Primary Invasive Haemophilus Influenza Type B Disease, A Population Based Assessment of Risk Factors". Journal of Pediatrics 1986.

c. Enhances Vaccine Response
The antibody levels of immunized infants were significantly higher in the breastfed than the formula-fed group. These findings are strong evidence that breastfeeding enhances the active humoral immune response in the first year of life.
Source: Papst, H.F. , Spady, D.W. "Effect of Breast Feeding on Antibody Response to Conjugate Vaccine". Lancet, 1990.

The breastfed group had significantly higher antibody levels than two formula-fed groups together. Breastfed infants thus showed better serum and secretory responses to perioral and parenteral vaccines than the formula-fed, whether with a conventional or low-protein content.
Source: Van-Coric, M. "Antibody Responses to Parental & Oral Vaccines Where Impaired by Conventional and Low-Protein Formulas as Compared to Breast Feeding". Acta Paediatr Scand 1990; 79: 1137-42.

Human milk can transfer specific or nonspecific immunities to the external mucosal surface of the intestine and possibly to the respiratory tract of the newborn. The acquisition of such passive immunity is particularly important in the early neonatal period when the immune system is immature.
Source: Chang, S.J. "Antimicrobial Proteins of Maternal and Cord Sera and Human Milk in Relation to Maternal Nutritional Status". A. M. J. CLIN NUTR, 1990.

d. NEC
Among babies born at more than 30 weeks gestation, confirmed necrotizing enternal colitis was rare in those whose diet included breast milk; it was 20 times more common in those fed formula only.
Source: Lucas, A., Cole, T.J., "Breast Milk and Neonatal Necrotizing Enteral Colitis". Lancet 1990; 336:1519-23.

e. Otitis Media
Short duration of breastfeeding involved another significant risk of recurrent respiratory infections and otitis media.
Source: Alho, O., "Risk Factors for Recurrent Acute Otitis Media and Respiratory Infection in Infancy". Int J Ped Otorhinolaryngology 1990; 19:151-61.

Significantly increased risk for acute otitis media as well as prolonged duration of middle ear effusion were associated with male gender, sibling history of ear infection and not being breastfed.
Source: Teele, D.W., Apidemilogy of Otitis Media During the First Seven Years of Life in Greater Boston: A prospective, Cohort Study". J of INFEC DIS.1989.

f. Herpes Simplex
Mothers milk could play a role in the protection of newborns from Herpes Simplex virus II contamination.
Source: Lopez, I., "Neutralizing Activity Against Herpes Simplex Virus in Human Milk". Breast Feeding REV 1990; 11(2): 56-58.

g. Respiratory Syncytical Virus (RSV)
Breastfeeding was associated with a lower incidence of RSV infection during the first year of life.
Source: Holberg,C.J., "Risk Factors for RSV Associated lower Respiratory Illnesses in the First Year of Life". AM J Epidemiol 1991; 133 (135-51).

h. Respiratory Infections
The authors presented results found in infants with two or more episodes of acute chronic bronchitis. They found that approximately twice as many bottle-fed infants presented with the problem as those who were breastfed.
Source: de Duran, C.M. "Cytologic Diagnosis of Milk Micro Aspiration". IMM ALLERGY PRACTICE 1991; xiii (10);402-5.

There was a strong negative effect modification by breastfeeding: relative odds of respiratory illness with maternal smoking were seven times higher among children who were never breastfed then among those who were breastfed.
Source: Woodwar, A. "Acute Respiratory Illness in Adelaide Children: Breast Feeding Modifies the Effect of Passive Smoking". J Epidemiol in Comm Health 1990;44:224-30.

2. Protects Against Illnesses
a. General
Infants of a middle class and well-educated populations benefit from the breastfeeding practice and its protective effect, more so if they are exclusively breastfed and for a longer period.
Source: Palti, H., "Episodes of Illness in Breast Fed & Bottle Fed infants in Jerusalem". ISR J MED SCI, 1984.

b. Immunologic Development
Enhanced fecal SIgA in breastfed infants is not cause solely by the presence of IgA in breast milk; it represents a stimulatory effect of breastmilk on the gastrointestinal humeral immunologic development.
Source: Koutras,A.K., "Fecal Secretory Immunoglobulin A in Breast Milk vs. Formula Feeding in Early Infancy". J Ped Gastro Nutr, 1989.

c. Wheezing
Breastfeeding seems to protect against wheezing, respiratory tract illnesses in the first four months of life, particularly when other risk factors are present.
Source: Wright, A.L., "Breastfeeding and lower respiratory Tract Illnesses in the First Year of Life." British Medical Journal, 1989.

d. SIDS
A study indicated that breastfeeding was protective against SIDS, Consistent with an effect mediated through the prevention of gastrointestinal and/or respiratory disease.
Source: Hoffman, H.J., "Risk Factors for SIDS: Results of the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development SIDS Cooperative Epidemiologic Study". Ann NY ACAD Sci, 1988.

Not breastfeeding at discharge from an obstetric hospital at any stage of the infants life was associated with an increased risk of SIDS.
Source: Mitchell, A. "Results from the First Year of The New Zealand Count Death Study". N.Z. Med A, 1991; 104:71-76.

e. General Morbidity
There is an inverse relationship to breastfeeding and morbidity. This was most prominent in the first year of life, but it was also present in the first three years.
Source: Van Den Bogaard, C. "Relationship Between Breast Feeding in Early Childhood and Morbidity in a General Population". Fan Med, 1991; 23:510-515.

f. AIDS
The lack of a dose response affect between breastfeeding and perinatal HIV-1 transmission in the presence of the protective effect of breastfeeding against common causes of early childhood morbidity and mortality support the current WHO recommendation that breastfeeding should continue to be promoted in all developing countries, including those with high HIV-1 prevalence rates in women of child bearing age.
Source: Ryder,R., "Evidence from Zaire that Breastfeeding by HIV-1 seropositive Mothers is not a Major Route for Perinatal HIV-1 Transmission but does Decrease Morbidity". AIDS 1991; 5(6):709-14.

g. Infant Survival
There is an association between breastfeeding up to 6 months of age and survival of infants throughout the first year of life. The younger the infant and the longer the breastfeeding, the greater the estimated benefits in terms of death averted.
Source: Habicht, J.P., "Does Breast Feeding Really Save Live, or Are Apparent Benefits due to Biases?" Am J Epidemiology, 1986.

h. Gastroesophageal Reflex
Breastfed neonates demonstrate gastroesophageal reflux episodes of significantly shorter duration than formula-fed neonates.
Source: Heacock, H.J., "Influence of Breast vs. Formula Milk in Physiologic Gastroesophageal Reflux in Health Newborn Infants". J. Pediatr Gastroenterol Nutr, 1992 January; 14(1): 41-6.

i. Multiple Sclerosis
Although thought to be multifactorial in origin, and without a clearly defined etiology, lack of breastfeeding does appear to be associated with an increased incidence of multiple sclerosis.
Source: Dick, G. "The Etiology of Multiple Sclerosis." Proc Roy Soc Med 1976;69:611-5.

j. Inguinal Hernia
Human milk contains gonadotropin releasing hormone, which may affect the maturation of neonatal testicular function. This case control study showed breastfed infants had a significant dose response reduction in inguinal hernia.
Source: Pisacane, A. "Breast-feeding and inguinal hernia" Journal of Pediatrics 1995:Vol 127, No. 1, pp 109-111.

k. Cryptorchidism (Undescended Testicle)
This case controlled study showed a significant association of cryptorchidism and lack of breastfeeding.
Source: Mori, M. "Maternal and other factors of cryptorchidism: a case-control study in Japan" Kurume Med J 1992:39:53-60.

3. Protection From Allergies
a. Allergic Families
Breastfeeding, even for short periods, was clearly associated with lower incidence of wheezing, prolonged colds, diarrhea, and vomiting.
Source: Merrett, T.G., "Infant Feeding & Allergy: 12 Month Prospective Study of 500 Babies Born into Allergic Families". American Allergies, 1988.

b. Eczema
Eczema was less common and milder in babies who were breastfed (22%) and whose mothers were on a restricted diet (48%). In infants fed casein hydrolysate, soymilk or cows milk, 21%, 63%, and 70% respectively, developed atopic eczema.
Source: Chandra R.K., "Influence of Maternal Diet During Lactation and the Use of Formula Feed and Development of Atopic Eczema in the High Risk Infants". Br Med J. 1989.

4. Enhances Development and Intelligence
a. Higher IQ
Children who had consumed mother's milk by tube in early weeks of life had a significantly higher IQ at 7.5 to 8 yr.. than those who received no maternal milk, even after adjustment for differences between groups and mothers' educational and social class.
Source: Lucas, A., "Breast Milk and Subsequent Intelligence Quotient in Children Born Preterm". Lancet 1992;339:261-62.

b. Cognitive Development
Supplementary regression analysis examining the strength of relationship between duration of breastfeeding and cognitive development show a small but significant relationship between duration of breastfeeding and scores on the mental development index of the Bayley Scales at 1 and 2 years.
Source: Morrow-Tlucak, M. "Breast Feeding and Cognitive Development During the First 2 years of Life. "Soc Sci Med, 1988.

In 771 low-birth-weight infants, babies whose mothers chose to provide breastmilk had an 8-point advantage in mean Bayley's mental developmental index over infants of mothers choosing not to do so.
Source: Morley,R., "Mothers Choice to provide Breast Milk and Developmental Outcome." Arch Dis Child, 1988.

c. Social Development
The psychomotor and social development of breastfed babies clearly differs from that of bottle-fed ones and leads at the age of 12 months to significant advantages of the psychomotor and social capabilities.
Source: Baumgartner, C., "Psychomotor and Social Development of Breast Fed and Bottle Fed babies During their First year of Life". Acta Paediatrica Hungarica, 1984.

5. Long Term Benefits
a. Dental Health
Among breastfed infants, the longer the duration of nursing the lower the incidents of malocclusion.
Source: Labbok, M.H. "Does Breast Feeding Protect against Malocclusion? An Analysis of the 1981 Child Health Supplement to the National Health Interview Survey". American Journal of Preventive Medicine, 1987.

b. Toddler Health
Mothers of 67 infants were questioned about the types and duration of illness episodes requiring medical care between 16 and 30 months of age. Breastfeeding was noted to decrease the number of infant illnesses and indirectly improve toddler health.
Source: Gulick, E.E. "The Effects of Breastfeeding on the Toddler Health. "Pediatric Nursing, 1986.

c. Diabetes Mellitus
Children who developed IDDM in New South Wales, Australia were matched with healthy children (ratio 1:2) of the same sex and age for comparison. Those who were exclusively breastfed during their first three months of life had a 34% lower risk of developing diabetes than those who were not breastfed. Children given cow's milk-based formula in their first three months were 52% more likely to develop IDDM than those not given cow's milk formula.
Source: Diabetes Care 1994;17:1381-1389, 1488-1490.

d. Childhood Cancer
Children who are artificially fed or breastfed for only 6 months or less, are at an increased risk of developing cancer before age 15. The risk of artificially fed children was 1-8 times that of long-term breastfed children, and the risk for short term feeders was 1-9 times that of long term breast feeders.
Source: Davis, M.K. Infant Feeding and Childhood Cancer. "Lancet 1988.

e. Chron's Disease
In this study, lack of breastfeeding was a risk factor associated with later development of Crohn's disease.
Source: Koletzko, S., "Role of Infant Feeding Practices in Development of Crohn's Disease in Childhood." Br Med J, 1989.

f. Hodgkin's Disease
A statistically significant protective effect against Hodgkin's disease among children who are breastfed at least 8 months compared with children who were breastfed no more than 2 months.
Source: Schwartzbaum, J. "An Exploratory Study of Environmental and Medical Factors Potentially Related to Childhood Cancer." Medical & Pediatric Oncology, 1991; 19 (2):115-21.

g. Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis (JRA)
Preliminary data from researchers at the University of North Carolina and Duke University comparing 54 children with JRA and a control group without JRA of similar age and race indicates that children who were breastfed were only 40% as likely to develop JRA.
Source: "Mother's Milk: An Ounce of Prevention?" Arthritis Today May-June 1994.


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Maternal Benefits

1. Delays Fertility
Women who nurse frequently during exclusive breastfeeding remained amenorrhoeic longer than infrequent nursers, introduced supplements later and did not resume menses as promptly thereafter. Duration of exclusive nursing and night nursing after supplementation were the major influences on amenorrhoea.
Source: Elias,M.F. "Nursing Practices and Lactation Amenorrhoea." Journal of Biosco Sci, 1968.

2. Breast Cancer
Among both premenopausal and postmenopausal women, risk of breast cancer decrease with increasing duration of lifetime lactation experience although the effect was consistently stronger for premenopausal women.
Source: McTieman, A., Evidence of Protective Effect of Lactation on Risk of Breast Cancer in Young Women." American Journal of Epidemiology, 1986.

After controlling for age at first full term pregnancy and other potentially compounding factors, parity and duration of breast feeding also had a strong influence on the risk of breast cancer. Compared with parous women who never breast fed, women who had breast fed for 25 months or more had a lower relative risk.
Source: Layde, P.M., "The Independent Associations of Parity Age at First full Term Pregnancy, and Duration of Breast Feeding with the Risk of Breast Cancer." Journal of Clinical Epidemiol, 1989.

If women who do not breastfeed or who breastfed for less than 3 months were to do so for 4 to 12 months, breast cancer among parous premenopausal women could be reduce by 11%; if all women with children lactated for 24 months or longer, the incidence might be reduced by nearly 25%.
Source: Newcomb,P. etal. "Lactation and reduced risk of premenopausal breast cancer." N Engl J Med 1994; 330(2):81-87.

Women who were breastfed as infants, even if only for a short time, showed an approximate 25% lower risk of developing premenopausal or postmenopausal breast cancer, compared to women who were bottle-fed as an infant.
Source: Freudenheim, J. "Exposure to breast milk in infancy and the risk of breast cancer." Epidemiology 1994 5:324-331.

3. Uterine Cancer
A protective effect against uterine cancer was found for women who breastfeed.
Source: Brock, K.E., "Sexual, Reproductive, and Contraceptive Risk Factors for Carcinoma-in-Situ of the Uterine Cervix in Sidney. "Medical Journal of Australia, 1989.

4. Ovarian Cancer
Breastfeeding should be added to the list of factors that decrease ovulatory age and thereby decrease the risk of ovarian cancer.
Source: Schneider, A.P. "Risk Factor for Ovarian Cancer. "New England Journal of Medicine, 1987.

5. Endometrial Cancer
Lactation provides a hypoestrogenic effect with less stimulation of the endometrial lining. This event may offer a protective effect from endometrial cancer.
Source: Petterson B, et al. "Menstruation span- a time limited risk factor for endometrial carcinoma." Acta Obstet Gyneocol Scand 1986;65:247-55.

6. Emotional Health
At one month postpartum, women who breastfed their infants had scores indicating less anxiety and more mutuality than the women bottle feeding their infants.
Source: Virden, S.F., "The Relationship Between Infant Feeding Method and Maternal Role Adjustment." Journal of Nurse Midwives, 1988.

7. Decrease Insulin Requirements
Breastfeeding decreased insulin requirements in diabetic women. Reduction in insulin dose postpartum was significantly greater in those who were breastfeeding than those who were bottle feeding.
Source: Davies, H.A., "Insulin Requirements of Diabetic Women who Breast Feed." British Medical Journal, 1989.

8. Decreased Osteoporosis
The odds ratio that a woman with osteoporosis did not breastfeed her baby was four times higher than for a control woman.
Source: Blaauw, R. et al. "Risk factors for development of osteoporosis in a South African population." SAMJ 1994; 84:328-32.

9. Promotes Postpartum Weight Loss
Mothers who breastfed exclusively or partially had significantly larger reductions in hip circumference and were less above their pre-pregnancy weights at 1 month postpartum than mothers who fed formula exclusively.
Source: Kramer, F., "Breastfeeding reduces maternal lower body fat." J Am Diet Assoc 1993;93(4):429-33.

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One of the reasons I'm not interested in being a mother is that in our culture there is only one "right" way to be one- to make your child not just your first priority but your *only* priority. As illustrated by all the criticism and judgements of moms who cannot or choose not to nurse, and in many other areas of parenting as well.

"One of the reasons I'm not interested in being a mother is that in our culture there is only one "right" way to be one- to make your child not just your first priority but your *only* priority. As illustrated by all the criticism and judgements of moms who cannot or choose not to nurse, and in many other areas of parenting as well."


I identify with this. For the most part, seeing a woman breastfeed in public doesn't really bother me that (having said that, most I've seen are discreet. I have seen a few women just yank it out and start feeding and that's always awkward.) But the whole mom vs. mom thing is so weird to me. To breastfeed or not to breastfeed. To work or to stay at home. To make sure your child participates in lots of activities or not to. There seems to be so much conflict between women with children...so much judgment. That would drive me bonkers - I would absolutely have NO tolerance for the judgment. Women should do what works for them (within reason) and stop judging other women. I'm pretty sure that if I had chosen to have children, most people would think I was a bad mother. If I wasn't able to breastfeed, I wouldn't get neurotic about it and if anyone tried to make me neurotic about, I'd tell them to stay the heck out of my business. Same thing with working versus staying home. And I wouldn't be one of those ridiculously over-protective parents who makes their children strap on helmets, knee pads, and elbow pads just to ride a freakin bicycle. It's just all TOO much. Society has taken something that's already difficult enough and made nearly impossible to do. I truly don't understand the judgment between moms.

It's really hard to explain how it feels to become a mother. It's certainly not for everyone. I respect the people here in this child-free forum so much because I'm one who believes there are people out there having kids because they think it's what they SHOULD do--rather than choosing to have kids because they really want to be parents.

I think this is why we see so many different styles of parenting out there...As for the breastfeeding stuff, that's just simply about the fact that most women simply don't have a good understanding of what formula really is and how it's inferior to breastmilk.

It took me until my son was about 1 year old to realize that I wished I had nursed him. I hadn't even tried. I learned the hard way and would have made a different decision if I'd educated myself on the topic. A few commercials here and there and a few paragraphs in parenting books don't quite cover it.

Jan

I hear what you're saying about breastfeeding, but frankly not everyone can breastfeed. Some women aren't capable are producing enough milk...and others have babies who have "attachment" problems. And I just don't think it's right to demonize women who don't want to. Some women just aren't comfortable doing it.

I also think there have been different styles of parenting since the beginning of time, but I think the judgment thing between moms has gotten much worse over the last 50 to 60 years. I see more articles and t.v. shows dedicated to moms arguing about who is better mother than I've ever seen before. It's....well, creepy. Again, this is one of many reasons why I've chosen not to have kids.

Snooks- totally agree 100%. Quite frankly, as much as it annoys me to feel judged for not wanting to have children, the level of judgement women with children level on each other has seemed MUCH higher from what I've seen, and more vicious. There are many reasons I don't want to have my own children, but not wanting to be involved in the "mommy wars" (with its attendant guilt and anxiety, which I know I'd fall prey to!) is definitely one of them.

I hear this a lot. I was raised on formula and I'm not just fine. I have PCOS and used to have high cholesterol.

Here are some benefits for mom and baby. I'll try to post more benefits for adults who were breastfed when I have time.

Jan,

For what it's worth, I was breastfed for 17 months and have PCOS. I also used to have high cholesterol until I started to address the PCOS through a change in diet and beginning weight training.

What you posted was informative, but do you really think it's appropriate for a parent to make a post here that's roughly 4x the average post length on this particular group? Whether we were or weren't breastfed, there's not much we can do about it now --- and the vast majority of us won't be doing any breastfeeding ourselves. Posting a link would have been fine, don't you think?

I realize it can be a charged issue, with parents being every bit as judgmental of other parents as CF people could ever be (which is unfortunate), but this is one place where most of us try to get away from all of that. All of it. Please try to understand.

I think i would be in horrible trouble with other parents if I had a kid.

I would likely not be able to only breastfeed, because I do need to have a job. Baby could not come to work.

My kids would not be involved in 300 activities and wearing pads and helmets while doing so. I think kids need to learn to spend time by themselves too..otherwise they turn into needy adults. And really, i rode a bike and a skateboard before pads and it did not seem like a big deal--and my parents were very overprotective!

Elise, you make an excellent point about Jan's post. The only thing that information provides us who don't plan to have kids is a reason to think that mom's that don't breastfeed are doing their kids a disservice....that and i guess contemplate what issues i can be at risk for! My mother did not breastfeed me or my brother and I sure hope she is not viewing lists like that and feeling guilty. I don't judge my mother for her decision not to breastfeed, nor will I judge anyone else.