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What's that famous quotation....?

"Judge not, that ye be not judged".....?

Think that's how it goes....

Timsgirl: I think that Alexandra gave you excellent advice and express my sentiments exactly.

I'll just briefly add that hatred is indicative of unhealed wounds in YOURSELF. I pray that you resolve these feelings so that your true nature, which is love, can have dominion in your psyche.

Be blessed.

I do think that if you hate all kids than that is kind of bad. My reason for thinking this is that its not good to universally hate any group of people or assume you'll hate any group. For example, I dont go out of my way to spend time with the elderly but I would never say I hate the elderly. I also would not choose a job in a nursing home. I think its fine to not like to be around lots of kids and of course its more then fine to not want you own not want to baby sit, etc. I doubt you hate all kids though for the simple reason you havent hated them all. I just would not use the word hate as it ticks people off, say "Im not a kid person" and that can be the end of it.

I have felt like I am the only one: a Christian who wants nothing to do with kids. It is nearly unheard of. I have extreme views on the subject. I appreciate your honesty. Don't feel bad about the way you feel. You are not making up those feelings - they are just simple facts for you.
You can prevent a horrible situation from happening if you get sterilized (or talk your husband into it). At age 27 I got the Essure procedure. My insurance covered it. If not, it would have cost $9000. I told the doc. if she refused me then I would just continue searching for a doctor that would do it. Apparently, 27 is not too young. Thank God! What a blessing.