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#289059 01/23/07 03:09 PM
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Am I taking ths way to hard. I had 2 miscarraiges last year about 3 months apart and I stillcant stand to see pregant women or listen to someone talk about being pregant. It feels like it did when i first had the mcx2. I dont burst into tears nemore at the sight of a pregnant woman or a new baby. But I do fret when i hear or see them. My last mc was back in spetember of 06. And I still cry myself to sleep about once or twice a week about it. Am i taking this to hard?


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I have no idea what "way too hard" is! But if you're troubled by your grief consider talking to a counsellor, a priest/minister or finding a bereavement support group. Especially if you can find something for miscarriage. It sounds to me like you've done some healing but maybe not as much as you wish. A "trained professional" might be able to help you work through stuff. I'm up and down from hour to hour and minute to minute, a little more than 2 weeks after my second miscarriage. I haven't been crying, but then I don't cry much anyway, but I still feel like part of me died that day. I hope you find someone to help you through this ... all the best and God Bless.

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Greetings wannabemexicana

I'm very sorry for your loss.

Rememeber that God says that we are to mourn with those who mourn .yes?

It takes time to grieve; there is no pamphlet that can instruct your heart except the love ove one who walks alongside and simply ..cares.

I DO now that NAMING the baby that you miscarried is iportant; some belivers elive that you will someday ahve the opportunity to raise that child..in Heaven. I'm still looking for a scritputal reference before suggesting that.

Let God be your comfort.

Let your heart dictate how low and how wide and dep is YOUR love for yur miscarried baby.

Rememebr that what you are able to conque with the help of Gods grace ..YOU can help others ..it is out of the OVERFLOW.. that we bless. Who can offer a drinkof water from an empty bucket?

Likewise who can drink from an empty cup?

Let God fill your cup to overflowing; He has many gret things in store for YOU!

Be fitly blessed,
aTeeDAZ


be fitly blessed,
aTeeDAZ

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