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The competition between men and women with three types
1-love attarction
2-sex attraction
3-Chemical attraction
The love of a beautiful relationship, if grown turned to the passage of a sexual relationship time.
Messing sex does not lead to love and compatibility other hand, Chemical attraction it leads j for love and sex together>>>

thanks

There is no connection between love and sex there are many friends only love relationship is very successful and live years

From a guy's perspective no and here's why, most of the things you ladies like to do is just lame to us. I can understand why a woman would want to be friends with a man without it being a romantic relationship, for one there is usually less drama but also women can develop a friendship with a person just by spending time with them and enjoying their company. For us guys our friendships are all about activities, the things we do with each other. Even our relationships with women involve a certain activity...sex. So it's technically possible for a man and a woman to be friends but not probable. If you're a woman and you think you have a male "friend" I'd say there's a 99% chance he he is sexually attracted to you and he thinks he has a chance with you.

I have male friends that have been my friends for longer than I have been married. ...to assume that it is not possible is a slap in the face to both genders. I have always thought the very idea was one that some insecure man came up with to control his new wife or young girlfriend(or woman her husband/boyfriend)

Now IF one or some of my male friends have harbored "lustful" thoughts that is their problem..but after all these years I am thinking I would know...

Greetings!

I would have to agree that lust is fanned by beauty.

Any man or woman is in a place of isolation when placed with someone of he opposite sex. God tells us it is not good fo man to BE alone.

1)WHO does the person see when that person is WITH you? Does the man see Jesus first and THEN the woman?

2)Does the woman SEE Jesus first and THEN the see the man?

3)WHO is on the throne of YOUR life?

4)What personal boundaries are in force in your life?

a) Are these boundaries physical?b)emotional?c)spiritual?

5)HOW do each of these boundaries touch the lives of others?

6)Have YOU personally trespassed the boundaries set by others?

7)Have you allowed another to set foot mind heart soul in an already MARITAL territory?

If you are marriage minded then someday you have set on the shelf for a very special person.Likewise WHO is that somone that is set apart for the one that YOU say yu call friend and nothing more?

IF a man or woman is pouring water that was drwan from a well by he and his spouse for some OTHER woman it is as if he feeds the other woman and lets his own wife go thirsting.

Is it an wonder that in Old Testament times the enemy would fill up the well with rocks?

Yet the Judaic Law would EXPECT that the enemy be blessed by leaving food on the borders of the battlefield...NOT destroying the whole of the fruit trees?

Perhaps the fruit that you SEEK is that which has been left on the erameters to feed you a taste of the harmony and truth of LOVE?

be fitly blessed,
aTeeDAZ

What are you trying to say? This has any relation with the thread?

It's not just that men don't want their wives or girlfriends to have male friends, it's that men usually don't want to hang around with a woman unless he thinks he can get something more. As far as the insecurity/jealousy factor I'm sure that women have just as big of a problem, probably more since women tend to be less trusting, with their husbands or boyfriends having female friends. It's not impossible and there are exceptions I'm sure.

I think men and women can be friends. For me the key to keeping things in the place of friendship is the lack of desire to be more than friends.

I have male friends who I can say are attractive but I don't feel any fireworks over them. I have no wish to encourage more than a friendship.

"If you're a woman and you think you have a male "friend" I'd say there's a 99% chance he he is sexually attracted to you and he thinks he has a chance with you."

I disagree with that. My male friends are usually also close friends of my husband's. They are more like family to us.

I will agree that the friendships I have with the guys tend to revolve around activities that we share an interest in.

There are different kinds of male friends:
1. If he is half of a couple (ok)
2. If he was your husband's friend first(ok)
For all practical purposes, you are off limits to him while you are married.

I you are a woman and you have any kind of male friend, and you became single all of a sudden, any man in his right mind would want to make you feel better in any way he could. Therefore, "If you're a woman and you think you have a male "friend" I'd say there's a 99% chance he he is sexually attracted to you and he thinks he has a chance with you." You bet!!!!!!
Even if he's happily married, if he sees you are in pain, he will try to do what he can to make you feel better. And that's when it gets dangerous.

Isn't that funny, that even if someone tells us the truth and we don't want to hear it, we deny it? Ladies, we control this situation, so it's not a problem for us. Just make sure you don't let your man console a woman "friend" without your supervision!