Girls, you are both so courageous!! these are such sad sad experiences... am so sorry...
what a tough life sometimes.
Will pray for you both with your hubbies. I know this is going to take awhile to heal. My heart goes out to you both.
Xrysty: Am not sure whether you want to know about this, I just read an article on the amniocentesis test. I don't know if this is what they did to you, but they do say there is a very slight risk of miscarriage after it - 1 in 200 to 1 in 400, depending on the skill and experience of the doctor doing the test.
Am surprised your doc didn't take you seriously when you first told her about the abdominal pain. Sometimes life is so harsh. I also had quite a bad experience with my doctor, which made everything all the more worse. She was so clinical about the whole affair, (I felt) it was after all just a job for her, where to us it is life... Am not saying of course that all doctors are like this.
At this time, you must feel wretched. Take care of yourself. I have been told we will eventually get over all of this, sadly, it is back to the word 'time'.
God Bless you, we are all thinking of you.
Love & prayers