If you ask me a father is more important to a kids psychological well being than a mother.
How in the world can you even say that with a straight face? Some mothers are bad, granted, but there is no way in the world that a father is more important that a mother! A child always, without fail, wants mommy first, its natural instinct. They lived inside mom for 10 months, and mom is the only one nature equipped to nurish for them. Whats harmful for a childs psychological well being is when MOM doesn't want them. Dad is frankly immaterial. I would know, I was forced to know mine until I turned 18 and could make the decision not to see him myself.
Fathers play with their kid for 10 minutes and their heroes, mothers have to do EVERYTHING ELSE.
Sorry, this really hit a nerve.
Dez
BTW, I have an awesome stepdad who has been my dad for the last 23 years. There is a difference between a "father" and a "dad" and it is a mistake to think the one is the same as the other. Everyone has a father. It is a joy to be lucky enough to have a dad.