Thank you, Jellyroll. I don't know what the heck she was going through, but it fired on me. She has a lot of issues and I probably just said the wrong thing at the wrong time to have her boil over. Then after she realizes her mistake, she grasps yet attacks with feelings of abandonment.....at least that's my view of things.
I'm not angry anymore, but I still keep my distance. I don't see a productive, worthwhile friendship out of this relationship so I'll probably keep it that way.