No kidding, really...
I stand by that!
If it bothers you, say something. If you don't and especially if there's routine, there's a good chance you and your partner are kind of going through motions of the everyday getting this or that done and God forbid, trying to obtain something better than just eeking by.
If you're going to involve other people, after awhile what you may end up having may be worse than what you had before?