I feel that anyone who is in a marriage, regardless if it is the first, second or so on, should give all their attention to that present marriage and the present spouse and let the past lie in peace. True, the past is part of who one is today, but the present and future is what is imperative to a marriage. Each partner must do what they can to let their spouse know who is the most important person in their life.
Blessings to you and I wish you well.
