We have 2 disinct grownup getaways we love, and 1 family.
As a couple, it really depends on ouir mood - whether we need a rest and a chance to catch up on quality time. _ Then we go stay in a beautiful cabin in the Norht Georgia Mountains around Helen, GA. If we can get up there during the leaved changing it is wonderful.
But it is just a cabin with no one else around, we can relax as much as we wan, eat out or cook in - no schedules to keep.
Our other is Las Vegas. This is when we need some Ooomph put back in our marriage - a little excitement. And that place does jive you up!
With the kids we will do either a beach getaway (laidback) or a theme park visit (epsom salts for my feet)