i know exactly what you are saying but it is very hard deciding what is for the best at the time. In any event I am retaliating and he knows that I am not putting up with things anymore. We had a bit of a bad night on Friday and now his family know exactly what is going on.
I do have one question to ask. I know that people don't always mean what they say but when we are arguing he says horrible things and also in the morning after when we are still not speaking. I let him rant on and do not speak back to him. Why do people say horrible things when arguing and do you think they actually really mean it?
